As the same sex marriage debate rumbles on it is worth pointing out that traditional marriage is not sexist or genderist as any eligible man or woman in the UK can marry any eligible person of the opposite sex.
Marriage is therefore open to everyone.
That means that a man, whether heterosexual or homosexual, can marry a woman. It means that any woman, whether heterosexual or lesbian, can marry a man.
Therefore no eligible individual person is prohibited from marriage on the grounds of sex or gender.
Marriage, in the traditional sense and in the manner the church defines it (as opposed to the attempt by some to recently redefine it as a union between two persons), is a union between two people of the opposite sex. Why should this be changed?
In order to give equality the government introduced a new legal type of union called the civil partnership, which is defined as a union between two people of the same sex. Two people of opposite sexes cannot form a civil partnership. But there is nothing to stop heterosexual men or women from joining in a civil partnership with someone of the same sex. So, just as traditional marriage is not sexist or genderist, neither is a civil partnership. It is a matter of choice as to which route you wish to take.
There is nothing wrong with having two different words or sets of words for an opposite sex union and a same sex union, as long as they are equally valid in the eyes of the law. And the terms and concepts of ‘marriage’ and ‘civil partnership’ fit the bill nicely. After all, are we to redefine words like ‘heterosexual’, ‘homosexual’ and ‘lesbian’ so as to make them relate to all sexes and genders? No, that would be a nonsense. So why the concerted attempt to change the traditional definition of the word ‘marriage’?
Providers of marriage and civil partnership have the choice of what service(s) they wish to offer – as long as the choice they make is not based on hate or homophobia. And this is where the real argument should be based.
Would the church, by offering marriages but not civil partnerships, be acting based on hate or homophobia? The church would no doubt profess to loving all people whatever their sex or gender and that they only offer marriage as defined by God. But when viewed in the context of the church’s view over celibacy for homosexual priests and women as bishops there is a legitimate view that the church may be acting out of a sort of indirect homophobia.
Symbolic Equal Marriage Cake by Giovanni Dall'Orto
Then of course is the view that offering differently named services for different groups could stigmatize one of them, which may be true in the short term, but given time could become accepted by all. So the only way to prevent this stigmatisation is to open up marriage to same sex couples and drop the concept of civil partnerships. Then everyone, regardless of sex/gender would be able to choose the wedding they wanted, where they wanted and with the institution of their choice. But that would mean confronting, defeating and alienating those with very deeply held religious beliefs.
But when considering the relatively few numbers that actually attend churches regularly one has to wonder why so many people are so uptight about forcing religions to go against their beliefs anyway. Unless of course it’s just for that fairytale day at the altar instead of the need to have the union blessed by God. But if it is just for that reason then maybe the call to force churches to offer civil partnerships or same sex marriages loses some, if not all, validity.
But, as humans now generally believe that they have replaced God as rulers of the planet (and the universe in general), the church will be ground down into accepting civil partnerships, in fact it may well be forced into openly declaring that God blesses all unions whether opposite or same sex, while having a sex and gender based positive discrimination stance on the appointment of priests and bishops. But is that a declaration that humans can make on behalf of God?
Or is it now time to tell God that the human race has come of age and that, if we are really free to make our own choices, then God should bless those choices we have made. But again, which human or court has the authority to dictate to God. And remember that the whole UK constitution is currently based on the existence of God via the monarchy, which maybe why the government plans to ban the Church of England from offering same sex marriages.
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What about some countries that have had miscegenation laws? i.e. People of different races can't marry – is that racist? They'll say, "No, it's not racist to ban blacks and whites from marrying one another, because whites are free to marry whites, and blacks are free to marry blacks". If miscegenation is racial discrimination, then a ban on same-sex marriage is sex discrimination. You can say "marriage is defined as opposite sexes", well they can say "we define marriage as the same race only"
What if they instead said — "we are not going to remove the ban on inter-racial marriage, but we'll create a new kind of union for inter-racial couples, a 'civil union' or 'civil partnership'" — would that remove the racism? If not, then civil unions or partnerships don't remove the sexism from a same-sex marriage ban either.
Same-sex marriage bans are basically equivalent to miscegenation laws, except that "race" is replaced with "sex"/"gender", and "different"/"inter" gets replaced by "same"/"intra".
That's a bit of a spurious and misleading argument Zachary.
Laws that ban interracial marriage prevent people having a free choice of who they wish to form a legal union with. Those laws are therefore wrong.
There is nothing in UK law that prevents any person of any race, sex or gender forming a legal union with another person of their choice (polygamists excepted). They have one of two equal routes.
Anyway, any state that bans interracial marriage would be unlikely to make up a form of union that allowed it would they? It would defeat their whole objective. Unless it was designed to be a legally inferior type of union, which would then be wrong.
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